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Mindfulness

Mindfulness entails several qualities:


  • being present in the present moment
  • awareness of our actions and surroundings
  • observing rather than reacting


The present moment is where we have the power to act. Awareness gives us all the information we need to make the best decision at any given moment. Observing rather than reacting gives us time to process stimuli fully before responding. 


The Five Facet Mindfulness Questionnaire identifies observing, describing, acting with awareness, non-judging of inner experience, and non-reactivity to inner experience as the five facets of mindfulness.


Mindfulness meditation can help us cultivate mindfulness in daily life.


Introspective metacognitive awareness

Introspective metacognitive awareness is a foundational skill developed during mindfulness meditation. Broken down, it refers to:


  • Introspective - the capacity to look inward and observe one’s inner experience
  • Metacognitive - the ability to think about, monitor, and understand one’s own thinking
  • Awareness - conscious knowing, the ability to recognize what is happening in the present moment


It is the practice of observing our own thoughts, emotions, and mental patterns with curiosity rather than judgment. As we cultivate this capacity, we begin to access and consciously reprogram our internal operating system—learning to observe our mental experiences rather than automatically react to them. This marks a profound shift: from identifying with our thoughts to becoming aware of our experience of thinking.


Introspective metacognitive awareness can have positive effects on:


  • performance and leadership presence
  • conflict resolution and relationships
  • strategic thinking and decision-making
  • well-being and emotional regulation


Developing introspective metacognitive awareness can reduce:


  • impulsivity and emotional reactivity
  • rumination and repetitive thinking
  • anxiety-driven responses
  • projection onto others
  • resistance to feedback
  • burnout patterns

gratitude meditation

· When you set an intention to connect with gratitude, you're programming your mind to look for wins and connect with a sense of abundance in your life.


· When we take inventory, we see that at any given moment we have a lot to be thankful for. We have more than enough of everything we need. That includes time, resources, and love. Take a moment to think of something that you’re truly grateful to have in your life. It can be family, friends, a pet, your health, a beautiful sunset, or gratitude for simply being alive.


· Take a moment to connect with this feeling of gratitude. What does it feel like to you? It might feel like warmth, a melting sensation, a cool breeze, tingling, lightness, or simply a sensation of movement. It might be very subtle. See if you can sense it.


· Where in your body is this sense of gratitude located? Is it in your chest? Behind your eyes? Is it in your throat? Somewhere else? 


· Take a moment to bring your full awareness to this sense of gratitude. Now see if you can expand this feeling. Let it grow until it fills your whole body. Can you push it to the tips of your fingers and to the tips of your toes? Allow gratitude to circulate through every cell in your body. 


· Can you expand this sense of gratitude beyond your body? Radiate the feeling six inches out. Now can you fill the room with it? Send gratitude in all directions until it fills the sky.


· Whatever level you’re able to connect with gratitude today is greatly beneficial. If you can remember to connect with a sense of gratitude every day, whether it’s a mental check-in, keeping a gratitude journal, or making the full mind-body connection, the benefits are immense for both physical and mental health.  Expressing gratitude is good for your heart, nervous system, blood pressure, and provides relief from symptoms of anxiety and depression. Express your gratitude to someone for something they did and they'll reap the benefit as well. 


Learn more about the power of gratitude.

the law of no interference

"If you want to change the world, start with yourself." -attributed to Mahatma Gandhi


The Law of No Interference is simple in principle, though often challenging in practice. It refers to the practice of offering help only when it is explicitly requested, or when clear consent is given to engage. It recognizes that each person’s path is ultimately their own responsibility.


When we intervene without invitation, we can unintentionally limit another person’s opportunity for growth. At the same time, it is often easier to focus on solving others’ problems than to meet our own inner work with honesty and attention.


A key practice is to redirect the energy we might spend trying to change others toward understanding and transforming ourselves. In doing so, our impact becomes more grounded, authentic, and genuinely supportive of the collective.


In Buddhist practice, this orientation is reflected in sammā vāyāma (right effort), and in yogic philosophy, it relates to brahmacharya, understood more broadly as the wise and disciplined use of one’s energy. More on these below.

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upāya-kauśalya

In Buddhism, upāya-kauśalya refers to “skillful means,” the understanding that teachings and practices may take many forms depending on the practitioner. Rather than a single fixed method, there are a variety of skillful approaches, each designed to meet people where they are. Each person is invited to discover what genuinely supports their development toward realization.

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8 Limbs of Yoga

  • Yama - Moral disciplines
    • Ahimsa (Non-violence)
    • Satya (Truth)
    • Asteya (Non-stealing)
    • Bramhacharya (Using energy the right way)
    • Aparigraha (Non-grasping)
  • Niyama - Duties
    • Saucha (Cleanliness)
    • Santosha (Contentment)
    • Tapas (Discipline)
    • Svadhyaya (Self-study)
    • Isvara Pranidhana (Surrender)
  • Asana - Posture
  • Pranayama - Breathing techniques
  • Pratyahara - Withdrawal of senses
  • Dharana - Concentration
  • Dhyana - Meditative absorption
  • Samadhi - Enlightenment


Read more in The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali


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The Noble Eightfold Path of Buddhism

  • Sammā-diṭṭhi - Right View
  • Sammā-saṅkappa - Right Intention
  • Sammā-vācā - Right Speech
  • Sammā-kammanta - Right Action
  • Sammā-ājīva - Right Livelihood
  • Sammā-vāyāma - Right Effort
  • Sammā-sati - Right Mindfulness
  • Sammā-samādhi - Right Concentration


Learn more

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recommended reading

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SYMBOLIC AND SPECULATIVE FICTION

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recommended video games

  1. Fable. Xbox Game Studios; 2004.
  2. God of War Franchise. PlayStation; 2005–present.
  3. Horizon Zero Dawn Franchise. PlayStation; 2017–present.
  4. Super Mario Bros. Franchise. Nintendo; 1985–present.
  5. The Last of Us. PlayStation; 2013.
  6. The Legend of Zelda Franchise. Nintendo; 1986–present.
  7. The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt. CD Projekt Red; 2015.
  8. Uncharted Franchise. PlayStation; 2007–present.

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