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key concepts

Mindfulness

Mindfulness entails several qualities:


  • being present in the present moment
  • awareness of our actions and surroundings
  • observing rather than reacting


The present moment is where we have the power to act. Awareness gives us all the information we need to make the best decision at any given moment. Observing rather than reacting gives us time to process stimuli fully before responding. 


The Five Facet Mindfulness Questionnaire identifies observing, describing, acting with awareness, non-judging of inner experience, and non-reactivity to inner experience as the five facets of mindfulness.


Mindfulness meditation can help us cultivate mindfulness in daily life.


Introspective metacognitive awareness

Introspective metacognitive awareness is a key skill developed during mindfulness meditation. 


  • Introspective means looking into oneself. 
  • Metacognitive refers to thinking about thinking.
  • Awareness is knowing or consciousness. 


Introspective metacognitive awareness is a process whereby we learn to think about our thinking without judgement. Cultivating this ability allows us to hack into our own operating system. As we develop some clinical distance from our own thoughts, we gain insight into a very important question: who is the one doing the thinking?


gratitude

· When you set an intention to connect with gratitude, you're programming your mind to look for wins and connect with a sense of abundance in your life.


· When we take inventory, we see that at any given moment we have a lot to be thankful for. We have more than enough of everything we need. That includes time, resources, and love. Take a moment to think of something that you’re truly grateful to have in your life. It can be family, friends, a pet, your health, a beautiful sunset, or gratitude for simply being alive.


· Take a moment to connect with this feeling of gratitude. What does it feel like to you? It might feel like warmth, a melting sensation, a cool breeze, tingling, lightness, or simply a sensation of movement. It might be very subtle. See if you can sense it.


· Where in your body is this sense of gratitude located? Is it in your chest? Behind your eyes? Is it in your throat? Somewhere else? 


· Take a moment to bring your full awareness to this sense of gratitude. Now see if you can expand this feeling. Let it grow until it fills your whole body. Can you push it to the tips of your fingers and to the tips of your toes? Allow gratitude to circulate through every cell in your body. 


· Can you expand this sense of gratitude beyond your body? Radiate the feeling six inches out. Now can you fill the room with it? Send gratitude in all directions until it fills the sky.


· Whatever level you’re able to connect with gratitude today is greatly beneficial. If you can remember to connect with a sense of gratitude every day, whether it’s a mental check-in, keeping a gratitude journal, or making the full mind-body connection, the benefits are immense for both physical and mental health.  Expressing gratitude is good for your heart, nervous system, blood pressure, and provides relief from symptoms of anxiety and depression. Express your gratitude to someone for something they did and they'll reap the benefit as well. 


Learn more about the power of gratitude.

the law of no interference

The Law of No Interference is simple to understand and yet may be difficult to put into practice at first. It simply means that you are not to offer assistance unless it is explicitly requested or you are somehow given consent to interfere. Everyone's journey is their own responsibility. We rob others of their personal development when we meddle unnecessarily. It is often more appealing to try to solve someone else's problem than to recognize and change our own. Redirect the energy you would spend trying to change others into changing yourself and you will successfully create a positive impact that will truly benefit the collective. This is known as samma vayama in Buddhism and brahmacharya in yoga. More on these below.

Upaya-kaushalya

In Buddhism, upaya-kaushalya means "skillful means." The concept highlights the fact that there is no one way to achieve realization. Use whatever method or technique is available to you. Keep opening doors until you find the one that opens and walk through.

8 Limbs of Yoga

  • Yama - Moral disciplines
    • Ahimsa (Non-violence)
    • Satya (Truth)
    • Asteya (Non-stealing)
    • Bramhacharya (Using energy the right way)
    • Aparigraha (Non-grasping)
  • Niyama - Duties
    • Saucha (Cleanliness)
    • Santosha (Contentment)
    • Tapas (Discipline)
    • Svadhyaya (Self-study)
    • Isvara Pranidhana (Surrender)
  • Asana - Posture
  • Pranayama - Breathing techniques
  • Pratyahara - Withdrawal of senses
  • Dharana - Concentration
  • Dhyana - Meditative absorption
  • Samadhi - Enlightenment


Read more in The Yoga Sutras of Patanjali


The Noble Eightfold Path of Buddhism

  • Sammā-diṭṭhi - Right View
  • Sammā-saṅkappa - Right Intention
  • Sammā-vācā - Right Speech
  • Sammā-kammanta - Right Action
  • Sammā-ājīva - Right Livelihood
  • Sammā-vāyāma - Right Effort
  • Sammā-sati - Right Mindfulness
  • Sammā-samādhi - Right Concentration


Learn more

recommended reading

SCIENCE & NON-FICTION

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BUDDHISM

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YOGA

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FICTION

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  3. Rowling JK. Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince. Scholastic; 2005.

recommended films & shows

  1. Autofac: Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep. Directed by Peter Horton. YouTube Originals; 2019.
  2. Barbie. Directed by Greta Gerwig. Warner Bros.; 2023.
  3. Cloud Atlas. Directed by Tom Tykwer, Lana Wachowski, and Lilly Wachowski. Warner Bros.; 2012.
  4. Dogma. Directed by Kevin Smith. Lions Gate Entertainment; 1999.
  5. Dune. Directed by Denis Villeneuve. Warner Bros.; 2021.
  6. Edge of Tomorrow. Directed by Doug Liman. Warner Bros.; 2014.
  7. Everything Everywhere All at Once. Directed by Daniel Kwan and Daniel Scheinert. A24; 2022.
  8. Fight Club. Directed by David Fincher. 20th Century Fox; 1999.
  9. Free Guy. Directed by Shawn Levy. 20th Century Studios; 2021.
  10. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone. Directed by Chris Columbus. Warner Bros.; 2001.
  11. Inception. Directed by Christopher Nolan. Warner Bros.; 2010.
  12. Jumanji: The Next Level. Directed by Jake Kasdan. Columbia Pictures; 2019.
  13. Labyrinth. Directed by Jim Henson. TriStar Pictures; 1986.
  14. Minority Report. Directed by Steven Spielberg. 20th Century Fox; 2002.
  15. Mulholland Drive. Directed by David Lynch. Universal Pictures; 2001.
  16. Star Wars: Episode IV – A New Hope. Directed by George Lucas. Lucasfilm; 1977.
  17. Star Wars: Episode V – The Empire Strikes Back. Directed by Irvin Kershner. Lucasfilm; 1980.
  18. Star Wars: Episode VI – Return of the Jedi. Directed by Richard Marquand. Lucasfilm; 1983.
  19. The Hunger Games. Directed by Gary Ross. Lions Gate Entertainment; 2012.
  20. The Matrix. Directed by Lana and Lilly Wachowski. Warner Bros.; 1999.
  21. The Men Who Stare at Goats. Directed by Grant Heslov. Overture Films; 2009.
  22. The Truman Show. Directed by Peter Weir. Paramount Pictures; 1998.
  23. What Dreams May Come. Directed by Vincent Ward. PolyGram Filmed Entertainment; 1998.

recommended games

  1. Fable. Xbox Game Studios; 2004.
  2. God of War Franchise. PlayStation; 2005–present.
  3. Horizon Zero Dawn Franchise. PlayStation; 2017–present.
  4. Super Mario Bros. Franchise. Nintendo; 1985–present.
  5. The Last of Us. PlayStation; 2013.
  6. The Legend of Zelda Franchise. Nintendo; 1986–present.
  7. The Witcher 3: Wild Hunt. CD Projekt Red; 2015.
  8. Uncharted Franchise. PlayStation; 2007–present.

podcasts: coming soon

The Seven Factors of Awakening and the Scientific Method

The Seven Factors of Awakening and the Scientific Method

The Seven Factors of Awakening and the Scientific Method

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Meditation and the Flow State

The Seven Factors of Awakening and the Scientific Method

The Seven Factors of Awakening and the Scientific Method

How to cultivate the flow state reliably and reproducibly

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